Happy 30th Wedding Anniversary, David!

 On April 19, 1980, at 11:00 a.m. in the Salt Lake Temple we were Married!!!!

Hey, it’s 12:04 on April 19, 2010 and David and I have been married for 30 years!!!  That’s 10,950 days!  Impossible to count the numbers for things like how many movies we’ve seen, dinners we’ve cooked together, etc., but since 30 seems like such a momentous number and we’ve had some extraordinary experiences, I’ll try to name a few…say 30 things we’ve done together, many with our children, because out of those 30 years we’ve spent 27 of them with them. So here are a few memories of adventures we’ve had:

1.  Going on a bike ride before having children while living in King Henry Apartments, thinking after buying bikes for ourselves that life just doesn’t get much better than this.

2. Being the first couple in my family to buy a king-size waterbed and convincing a few sisters and husbands that waterbeds were wonderful so they bought them as well.  (Then being the first couple to get rid of ours!)

3. Buying a pop-up tent and taking our four little ones camping.  For some unexplained reason I got the reputation for being a non-camper (I admit I didn’t like the moldy smell of our used pop-up but was thrilled to support everyone else on their campouts!) oh and I did carry a vomiting child to the bathroom in the middle of a cold, dark night!

4. Taking our four children on a steep hike down a trail to Crater Lake because I wanted to touch the lake and then taking turns carrying Lindsay and Adrienne back up afterwards.

5. One hot, summer day when our kids were bored you built a rope slide in our backyard in Springfield, Oregon, and for several hours you assisted our kids and lots of their friends in “flying” across our backyard.

6. The time we took our kids cross-country skiing and skied about 500 yards where we stopped so you could set up our gas stove and heat chili and cocoa.  More important than trying to master staying up while skiing down hill was being the envy of other athletes who wished they had come so prepared.

7. Documenting our children’s lives with a video-camera in which you managed to capture sweet memories of our children laughing, playing, singing and showing off just a little bit for the camera.

8. The many planning sessions we had for Family Home Evening when we discussed options, planned and adjusted our schedule as we weekly updated our much anticipated East Coast Trip the summer of 2001.  So many laughs were shared as important moments such as, “Tonight we need to decide if we want to go to Philadelphia or Gettysburg.” The reply, Philadelphia, so you said “well I think we ought to go to Gettysburg, which was recommended by …”  By trip end we were Civil War buffs, Nate continued to chant, “Dad, look at that gun!” (a comment he heard in the Smithsonian that stuck), renting the two Buicks because it was “cheaper” than a van, Mom getting lost with Neverlost’s help in NYC, seeing some wonderful Church history sites and visiting friends at the highest roller-coaster in the world at the time amusement park, and learning that you really shouldn’t go on roller-coasters!

9. Being present at the most wonderful moments of my life--welcoming our babies!  With Lauren—“she has her eyes open already,” After  Nate, “I’m not feeling well. I think I need to go get something to eat.” With Lindsay I grabbed your ears and said, “stop making me hyperventilate, breath with me!” and after Adrienne, “what does our mailman look like?”

10.  Snorkling with our kids in Lanikai, where we swam with the flora and fauna many a quick morning or afternoon, the real reason we were willing to pay a huge mortgage to live in Paradise.  

11. Demonstrating a love of animals with heroic deeds such as once picking up a large turtle that was caught in tide pool in Maui and trying to resuscitate Magellan (our one-year-old cat) who unexpectedly had a stoke waking us one night.

12. Hiking up Teotihuacán with our kids and my parents and running with the Bulls in San Miguel DaJende (okay, that last one I didn’t know about until after the fact.) 

13. Discovering, while picking up pies for Thanksgiving dinner, that David has been more than occasionally pausing on the Food Network and proved he’s quite the gourmet finishing the dishes I started with delicious and artistic flair!  Forever after sharing in kitchen cooking for large, and often small, events!

14. Taking Adrienne on the Father/Son campout along with Nate as a reward for being potty-trained.  Ok, I wasn’t on that campout but after the difficult time we had in reaching that milestone, I needed the reward as well!

15. Working a deal with your employer to help ease the pain of having an empty-nest by accepting a job in Poland where we get twice weekly Polish lessons, and lots of time spent on adventures like deciding last-minute to go on an overnight trip and after deciding we’d had enough aggressive driving on country roads turning around and going home—we’re flexible like that!

16. Driving to the Outer Banks several times to make sure each of our children gets a chance to see Lighthouses and where Orville and Wilbur Wright made their first flights. 

17. Going to Myrtle Beach with a couple kids who wanted to see the ocean then spending most of the time playing miniature golf because the beach was boring. 

18. Getting Mothers Days off to a great start with the ritual of playing the recording of our little kids singing “Mother Dear I Love You So,” and then working hard to make sure I had a day off. 

19.  Making your famous chocolate pancakes.  Famous after I sent in your recipe for a special Valentine’s Day feature in the Longview, Washington newspaper and they sent a photographer and reporter to our house who wrote a story about how I knew mornings would be wonderful once we were married after you kicked your roommates out one morning shortly after we got engaged so you could impress me—which it did!

20.  More than a few Saturday mornings going out for breakfast at Boots and Kimo  in Kailua for banana pancakes even Jack Johnson would wait in line for.

21.  With your fluent Spanish and adventurous nature you hired our own tour guides to take us on a snorkeling tour off the coast of Puerto Viarta for a catered boat trip!  No large tour group crowds for us—and cheaper rates too!

22.  Setting up a tent to “camp out” in the back yard and showing up in our bed after the kids were soundly asleep.

23. Remodeling our kitchen, then a bathroom, then building two fences, another kitchen and even installing a kitty-door to name a few handy-man projects.

24. Making many a birthday special by continuing the tradition of making artichokes for my birthday along with a few other delights like steak or shrimp cocktail.

25. Teaching each of our children to drive a car, because that was YOUR job.

26.  Singing with Lindsay and Adrienne in their teens and above years on road trips. 

27.  Watching many a chick flick such as “Titanic” just to spend time with me, not to mention, “Pride and Prejudice” and “Anne of Green Gables!” 

28. Sharing your Papa Son story and “I Comma Zimba Zimba Ziya, song at many a campout with family or scouts.

29.  Joyfully serving as a bishop twice, even though knowing the second time what kind of sacrifice would be required.

30.   Believing what you said with these and perhaps other “Davidisms,”  “you love those you serve and you serve those you love,”  “do hard things,” and “if Mama ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy.”